Behind the curve
October 3, 2012 So. It turns out falling in love with the idea of bicycling and getting a bike does not automatically, magically enable one to ride said bicycle. What a rip off, right? Ugh. As beautiful as my new bike is, when it arrived in July, I had to confront the reality that I had just spent a chunk of change (we called it our "anniversary present") on something I barely knew how to use.
While perusing bicycle blogs I've encountered the same late-to-bicycling story again and again. Lady (this is a gender neutral story, actually, but the neutral pronouns were sounding stupid) rode a bike as a kid and pre-car teenager. Lady and her gang of girl friends rode all over town! Meeting up at the park or riding to each others houses or going to get ice cream. Oh how carefree she was! The bicycle was freedom! Then Lady got her driving license, grew up, and forgot all about the glory of bicycles... until one fateful day when she climbed back on one, and voila! She was home! She was off! It was bike romance happily ever after!
This is a great story, and I love and respect it, but whenever I encounter it I can't help but think "you weren't new to riding a bike, you were just out of practice. I would kill to have a history of bicycling skills." And to be honest, I owned a bike when I was a kid. A sweet, stingray-style, banana-seat bike with badass pinstripes/racing stripes. But I learned to ride late relative to the neighborhood (around 9?), and I never felt truly comfortable. I rode past 4 houses, through the dirt field, and then past one more house to my bestie's home a lot; but rarely, if ever, rode farther than that. By the time middle school rolled around just a couple years later, the bestie had moved and the bike was stored in the garage.
In the interest of full disclosure: 6 or so years ago I acquired a beach cruiser, at which point I relearned the practice of pedaling and moving and maintaining balance, but soon after I got it I moved to a more hilly neighborhood, so I never rode it further than around the block to Walgreen's or the weekly farmers market, and never in traffic.
Anyway, the point is I have never in my life been the carefree kid who rode her bike everywhere. I have had a few faltering starts, but have never come close to more than the most rudimentary competence at the mechanics of moving a bicycle forward. And now I have a bike that I am still only beginning to learn to ride.
After a few short, relatively miserable trips, I was feeling a bit resistant to riding. I knew my seat was too low, but I liked the stability. Unfortunately we couldn't quite tighten it enough and it kept slipping in weird directions while I tried to ride. We dropped both bikes off at Mission Hills Bike Shop when we left town for a week in early September, and finally having the seat raised and adjusted has made all the difference!
I'm not saying I'm any kind of super- or even intermediate-biker. Trust me, I am a total menace. I can't even take my hands of the bars to signal, so I wear my helmet and stick close to Matt. But I finally feel like I can do this. Or will be able to do this if I keep just taking the risk and riding to destinations. In the last couple weeks Matt and I have made a few trips of 2-3 miles each way. I walk up some of the hills, but I can ride up some of them too.
I'm getting better at looking around and seeing what's around me. I am totally in love! I want to ride my bike all the time! The businesses in my neighborhood and the surrounding areas are really bike-friendly--even giving bicycle discounts--and I love feeling like I'm joining this culture and getting even more involved in my community in a new way.
Unfortunately our stairs are super narrow, and with the 90 degree angle 2/3s of the way down (or 1/3 of the way up) I have a really hard time carrying it down the stairs, and simply cannot carry it all the way up. I've been stranded halfway a couple times when I've decided I was just being lazy not carrying it myself. So I have to rely on Matt to do the literal heavy lifting. This limits the quick impulsive spins that might give me more practice on my own (there isn't anywhere to lock up a bike for a few hours in our complex downstairs). Still, I'm feeling much better even in these last couple weeks. And now I'm kind of obsessed with the idea of moving into a first-floor apartment, if we can find a decent one.
If you live in San Diego, beware of me! I am quite possibly bicycling through your area next! Try not to get too close, and I'll do the same. Don't honk! But do meet me for a beer at my destination!
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Reader Comments (4)
omg, you look adorable in your helmet.
my bicycle riding experience is a little like yours. when i was a kid, i got a huffy and i cruised around in a giant circle around my apartment complex, but not much farther than that. about 7 years ago, i bought a beach cruiser, but i only rode it when i went to the beach with my parents in the summer time...in a giant circle around the parking lot where they camped. i like giant circles. :)
last year for pride, we decided to ride bikes from tina's house and that was my first time riding around on the streets, in traffic and around so many other people. i was terrified, but thrilled at the same time. it was so much fun. after that, i ditched that giant cruiser and got the one i have now. i've been trying to ride every weekend. i still need to get a helmet as i tend to only ride early in the morning to lessen the chances of getting hit and splattering brains. i wish you were closer so we could gang up. maybe one day when we get real good, we can meet half way!
Hell yes! When we're good we will officially form our girl bike gang and ride around terrorizing defenseless beers. I do have a kind of scary bike rack, so maybe when I'm a bit better I can bring my bike over. xoxo
Yay! I am glad you got the seat adjusted and you are feeling more confident. We need to bike date. I would l.o.v.e. that.
I can't relate (but I can sympathize!) to your lack of bicycling childhood. I'm a menace but in a different way. A yelling, crazed, "Hey! Don't you cut me off SUV! Obey the rules, asshole!" way.
And I want a shirt with our bike gang name... Menstrual Cycles.
I don't want to be the Menstrual Cycles! There are already lady bike gangs called that (the best one is a group of ob-gyn people from UCSF, I think).